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5Mar '20

Online ritual of commemoration and connection • 22 March 2020

IMPORTANT CHANGE: THE RITUAL ON SUNDAY MARCH 22ND WILL TAKE PLACE ONLINE DUE TO CORONA PREVENTION.

Four years after the attacks in Brussels and in the midst of corona prevention actions, we are nurturing trust in each other. We have the Choice and Bond zonder Naam invite you to a special ONLINE ritual of connection.

Sunday 22 March 2020

2 pm – 4 pm
ONLINE Eye Gazing Experiment
You can participate via this link: www.human.online
You can easily create an account.

4:30 pm – 6 pm
ONLINE Circle ritual of We have the choice

You can participate via this link: https://zoom.us/j/519436079
You can login online from 16h15 so you can test the connection.
Start Circle at 16h30.

Make sure you have a good wifi connection, preferably via a computer or laptop with camera.

Welcome between 14h and 16h to participate in the ONLINE Eye Contact Experiment.
Where is the connection between people?
Look 1 minute into the eyes of a stranger to find out. One minute eye contact means making real contact with someone else. Without (preliminary) judgements and expectations. Beyond the words.
By being in silence with each other in this way, we can experience our shared humanity.
Every year people in more than 300 cities worldwide participate in The Eye Gazing Experiment. Bond Zonder Naam joins this international movement as a statement for the importance of deeper human connection in times of polarization.

Afterwards you can participate in an ONLINE circle ritual from 16h30 to 18h. The Circle offers you a ritual space to find and share words on your personal experience. The circle helps to stand still, connect with others, become conscious about what is important for you, and to find the force to make authentic choices. Whatever happens, we always have the choice to choose love instead of falling into fear and hardening. The Circle is not
 a usual dialogue, it is about sharing and listening from heart to heart. Everyone can speak, but there is no need to speak. The quality of your presence is enough.
The Circles of the voluntary initiative We have the choice create since the attacks of 2016 spaces for standing still and connecting in various intercultural contexts, to promote a sense of community and to prevent further radicalization and violence.

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18Feb '20

Lecture by Kristin Verellen in Beersel Library on 5 March

As part of the ‘Encounters’ project, Kristin Verellen will tell her personal story in the Beersel Library on Thursday 5 March, using photos by Johan Van Steen that were published posthumously, combined with poems by herself. March 22, 2016: a day that many will not soon forget. 31 dead, many wounded and a country in mourning. Kristin lost her partner Johan Van Steen in the attacks and experienced how sitting together in vulnerability and trust after a shocking event leads to new resilience. Tickets (8€ + 1 drink) can be bought in Bib Beersel. More info can be found here.

11Sep '19

Expo Standing still/Still standing at Destelheide

The exhibition Standing Still / Still Standing runs from 1 October to 31 January at Destelheide and offers a complete experience of photographs by Johan van Steen, poems by Kristin Verellen and testimonies by participants of the Circle Rites. This will be done in conjunction with the work of Brussels youngsters from Centrum West who, in the summer of 2019, under the guidance of artist Katrien Oosterlinck and supported in Circles of We have the choice, started to work creatively on the Circle theme.
Through various approaches, the exhibition Standing Still / Standing Standing allows visitors to experience how pausing at a situation contributes to connection with yourself and others, and ultimately to new resilience. Because no matter what happens to you, you can always choose how you deal with it. We have the choice.
The exhibition will be opened on Thursday 24 October at 7 pm with a musical and poetic animated interview with Kristin Verellen and Katrien Oosterlinck. Sigrid Bousset, director of the Herman Teirlinckhuis and Bryce Bettens, an engaged young talent from Beersel, will provide a lively conversation. Afterwards, you can discover the exhibition during a festive reception, and get a signed book to support the non-profit cause of We have the choice. At 20h30 you will have the opportunity to experience a Circle yourself, guided by We have the choice, in the beautiful setting of the exhibition. Paul J. Simon, a talented musician from the region, puts us in the mood with some of his new songs. Registration is necessary.

More information: www.destelheide.be

15May '19

Corporate Circle of We have the choice

Our Corporate Circle, which took place on Monday 13 May at Colruyt Group in Halle, was a great success. A full circle of business leaders who could experience a circle of We have the choice and were invited to become ambassadors for our social aim. Silence and connection in the business world that goes faster and faster. The next Corporate Circle is planned for Thursday 28 November.

6May '19

Circle with students of Odisee

On 2 May, We have the choice accompanied a circle of first-year students from Odisee, Department of Family Sciences. It was a powerful and moving circle around the theme ‘I have the choice’. In the coming weeks, various circles with young people will be on the programme.

15Apr '19

Documentary about We have the choice on BX1

On the occasion of the commemoration of 22 March, BX1 made a beautiful documentary in which the circles of We have the choice are presented in depth. Kristin Verellen and Stien Michiels testify about what the circles have meant in the past three years and how We have the choice has grown into an organisation that is able to connect people from heart to heart in different contexts.

26Feb '19

Commemorations 22 March – Birchwood Circle

Three years ago, we were struck by the terror attacks in Brussels. Hate and terror, so close by, a shockwave went through the country. Since then, We have the choice has been inviting people to commune together in a circle, to listen to each other, heart to heart, despite and irrespective of differences between them, because every day we have the opportunity to make the choice for love above fear.

We welcome everybody and anybody who would like to commemorate the 22nd of March, to a ritual of remembrance at the Birchwood Circle in the Zonïen Forest. The Birchwood Circle is a beautiful monument amidst nature, created by landscape artist Bas Smets after being commissioned by Leefmilieu Brussel. It consists of an open space in the centre of the forest, surrounded by a round bench and 32 birchwood trees, as memorial to the 32 people who lost their lives and the numerous others who were injured on that fateful day.

We will come together in a circle to share what we live and what we feel, each in his/her own language. Nobody is obliged to speak; being present is enough. We will reserve special places for those directly affected by the attacks (victims, close family and friends, intervention- and support services). Anybody can take part in the circle, standing up or sitting down. The circle experience will be enhanced by a musical item by the Framagomi choir.

Whoever wants to, can, prior to the start of the circle ritual, participate in an hour of sitting in silence at the Brichwood Circle. This is an initiative of Silence for Peace.

PROGRAM

14U30 – 15U30     SILENT SIT-IN AT THE BIRCHWOOD CIRCLE ZONIËN FOREST
on map: Memorial

16U00 – 17U15     CIRCLE RITUAL AT THE BIRCHWOOD CIRCLE ZONIËN FOREST
on map: Memorial

17U30 – 18U30     CLOSING CEREMONY WITH DRINKS AND SNACKS
on map: Ceremony collection point

It is important to book to facilitate catering and insurance arrangements.
Participation is free.

LOCATION/PLACE

The Birchwood Circle Memorial is situated in the Zonïen Forest close to the Gravendreef/ Drève du Compte in Watermaal-Bosvoorde.

HOW TO REACH THE LOCATION

  • By public transport: Train station Bosvoorde or tram stop 8, Lieveheersbeestjes
  • By car: Park at the parking area of the train station Bosvoorde or Parking BEPARK

Calculate roughly 15-20 minutes of walking time from Bosvoorde station, tram stop or parking area to the Birchwood Circle. On the day the routes will be indicated clearly. The plan below provides information for orientation regarding the location.

ACCESSABILITY

Please contact us well before the event if you are a wheelchair user, via circles@wehavethechoice.com

This is an initiative of Circles – We have the choice vzw/asbl in partnership with Leefmilieu Brussels, FOD, Kanselarij of the Prime Minister, MIVB, Silence for Peace, V-Europe and Life4Brussels.

28Jan '19

‘Qui suis-je sans lumière’ at the Foire du livre

The French translation of the book ‘Waar blijf ik met dat licht van mij?’ with poems by Kristin Verellen and photographs by Johan Van Steen will be presented at Foire du Livre from 14 to 17 February in Brussels at the stand of Racine. More info about the book presentation will follow soon.

7Jan '19

Circle guide training

Have you already participated in a circle of We have the choice and would you like to voluntarily supervise circles for We have the choice? Preferably you have a background in working with groups or therapeutic work. Training days: Saturday 19 January in Ghent OR Saturday 16 February in Brussels. Interested? Mail us at: circles@wehavethechoice.com