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11Sep '19

Expo Standing still/Still standing at Destelheide

The exhibition Standing Still / Still Standing runs from 1 October to 31 January at Destelheide and offers a complete experience of photographs by Johan van Steen, poems by Kristin Verellen and testimonies by participants of the Circle Rites. This will be done in conjunction with the work of Brussels youngsters from Centrum West who, in the summer of 2019, under the guidance of artist Katrien Oosterlinck and supported in Circles of We have the choice, started to work creatively on the Circle theme.
Through various approaches, the exhibition Standing Still / Standing Standing allows visitors to experience how pausing at a situation contributes to connection with yourself and others, and ultimately to new resilience. Because no matter what happens to you, you can always choose how you deal with it. We have the choice.
The exhibition will be opened on Thursday 24 October at 7 pm with a musical and poetic animated interview with Kristin Verellen and Katrien Oosterlinck. Sigrid Bousset, director of the Herman Teirlinckhuis and Bryce Bettens, an engaged young talent from Beersel, will provide a lively conversation. Afterwards, you can discover the exhibition during a festive reception, and get a signed book to support the non-profit cause of We have the choice. At 20h30 you will have the opportunity to experience a Circle yourself, guided by We have the choice, in the beautiful setting of the exhibition. Paul J. Simon, a talented musician from the region, puts us in the mood with some of his new songs. Registration is necessary.

More information: www.destelheide.be

15May '19

Corporate Circle of We have the choice

Our Corporate Circle, which took place on Monday 13 May at Colruyt Group in Halle, was a great success. A full circle of business leaders who could experience a circle of We have the choice and were invited to become ambassadors for our social aim. Silence and connection in the business world that goes faster and faster. The next Corporate Circle is planned for Thursday 28 November.

6May '19

Circle with students of Odisee

On 2 May, We have the choice accompanied a circle of first-year students from Odisee, Department of Family Sciences. It was a powerful and moving circle around the theme ‘I have the choice’. In the coming weeks, various circles with young people will be on the programme.

15Apr '19

Documentary about We have the choice on BX1

On the occasion of the commemoration of 22 March, BX1 made a beautiful documentary in which the circles of We have the choice are presented in depth. Kristin Verellen and Stien Michiels testify about what the circles have meant in the past three years and how We have the choice has grown into an organisation that is able to connect people from heart to heart in different contexts.

26Feb '19

Commemorations 22 March – Birchwood Circle

Three years ago, we were struck by the terror attacks in Brussels. Hate and terror, so close by, a shockwave went through the country. Since then, We have the choice has been inviting people to commune together in a circle, to listen to each other, heart to heart, despite and irrespective of differences between them, because every day we have the opportunity to make the choice for love above fear.

We welcome everybody and anybody who would like to commemorate the 22nd of March, to a ritual of remembrance at the Birchwood Circle in the Zonïen Forest. The Birchwood Circle is a beautiful monument amidst nature, created by landscape artist Bas Smets after being commissioned by Leefmilieu Brussel. It consists of an open space in the centre of the forest, surrounded by a round bench and 32 birchwood trees, as memorial to the 32 people who lost their lives and the numerous others who were injured on that fateful day.

We will come together in a circle to share what we live and what we feel, each in his/her own language. Nobody is obliged to speak; being present is enough. We will reserve special places for those directly affected by the attacks (victims, close family and friends, intervention- and support services). Anybody can take part in the circle, standing up or sitting down. The circle experience will be enhanced by a musical item by the Framagomi choir.

Whoever wants to, can, prior to the start of the circle ritual, participate in an hour of sitting in silence at the Brichwood Circle. This is an initiative of Silence for Peace.


on map: Memorial

on map: Memorial

on map: Ceremony collection point

It is important to book to facilitate catering and insurance arrangements.
Participation is free.


The Birchwood Circle Memorial is situated in the Zonïen Forest close to the Gravendreef/ Drève du Compte in Watermaal-Bosvoorde.


  • By public transport: Train station Bosvoorde or tram stop 8, Lieveheersbeestjes
  • By car: Park at the parking area of the train station Bosvoorde or Parking BEPARK

Calculate roughly 15-20 minutes of walking time from Bosvoorde station, tram stop or parking area to the Birchwood Circle. On the day the routes will be indicated clearly. The plan below provides information for orientation regarding the location.


Please contact us well before the event if you are a wheelchair user, via circles@wehavethechoice.com

This is an initiative of Circles – We have the choice vzw/asbl in partnership with Leefmilieu Brussels, FOD, Kanselarij of the Prime Minister, MIVB, Silence for Peace, V-Europe and Life4Brussels.

28Jan '19

‘Qui suis-je sans lumière’ at the Foire du livre

The French translation of the book ‘Waar blijf ik met dat licht van mij?’ with poems by Kristin Verellen and photographs by Johan Van Steen will be presented at Foire du Livre from 14 to 17 February in Brussels at the stand of Racine. More info about the book presentation will follow soon.

7Jan '19

Circle guide training

Have you already participated in a circle of We have the choice and would you like to voluntarily supervise circles for We have the choice? Preferably you have a background in working with groups or therapeutic work. Training days: Saturday 19 January in Ghent OR Saturday 16 February in Brussels. Interested? Mail us at: circles@wehavethechoice.com

29Nov '18

We have the choice at the conference of Attent

On November 16th ‘Circles – We have the choice’ was invited at the conference of Attent in Antwerp. A day with interesting speakers about expressing solidarity in a super diverse society. A report of the presentation of ‘We have the choice’ can be found here.